Early July, 2018 I noticed swelling on my throat, near but above the collarbone.
Lymph nodes, who knew?
I saw my GP on July 23 and taking one look, she turned and scheduled bloodwork, a CT scan, chest x-ray and an ultrasound of my neck.
Bloodwork on Tuesday, CT scan et al on Wednesday and back to hear the news on Thursday.
Not good – either lymphoma or lung cancer. Two lymph nodes removed for biopsy on Monday the 30th, met with Oncologist Dr. Nik on Tuesday the 31st.
Dr Nik doesn’t mince words, which I like. “Your life is completely different from now on. Everything revolves around treating this.” PET scan and MRI on my brain scheduled for August 17 – looking to confirm the source and look for spread. Lymph nodes are in Boston to find exact biological make-up. Given “ground zero” from PET scan and biological results from Boston we can craft treatment options. Meeting to discuss those w/ Dr Nik on August 24.
As you can tell, this is/has been a rather whirlwind (and intimidating) experience. I feel like I’ve been to some doctor or another every day for 3 weeks, which is mostly true. I’m fortunate to have great people helping me process this and very good insurance (a huge thanks to Lara). Oddly, I seem to be laughing a lot, like I did in my, shall we say, more carefree days.
Sadie is taking things like a trouper – she’s scared but strong, and sometimes something will set her off and the gravity of the situation becomes real. I’m in awe of her and how she’s dealing. We’ve been having a lot of laughs, great conversations and have enjoyed a few movies, including this together for the 5th time. It was even more meaningful this time – the Friday before she started 7th grade. And one week in, she made the CMS volleyball team – a kinda big deal for us at this point in time. We’re in a good place, and she is awesome.
I plan to use this blog as a way to keep y’all up-to-date on this surreal journey. Also to have a little fun. Mainly to have some fun. I look forward to your well wishes, comments, e-hugs, etc, but please, leave stories of your friend’s cancer at the door.
Every person you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.
Be kind.
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Every person you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.
Be kind. This line here is the most true of any wisisms I hear a lot. I’m looking forward to following your bog and hearing about your battle. And you’ve made me think about all the cool times we have shared, and more to share in the future hopefully, you have made a difference in my life on many levels. Keep strong and keep us posted. I love you Tony Eubanks!
Wow! You are awesome and happy you are surrounded by great folks who love you!! Thinking of you and hope you’ll get through this quick and easy!
Sending you an eHug.